man it started the day before my b day march 10th this year . My wife isn't a citizen to this country, she is from Indonesia. but she came here when she was 5 years old so she is F*CKING American damn government took her away from me . i have been trying to get her back, hired a lawyer ,now its a waiting game . most stressful time of my life. Its like something is missing and coming home to nothing. ps and sex haven't had any for 7 months life sucks right now oh yea add me on fb just find me through coach's fb

If you're a citizen and married her, doesn't that make her a citizen too?

I thought that's how it worked too.

Are you a citizen? But yeah, that seems... strange.

that's what i thought to but they said she over stay her visa. so they made her go back. it was like i couldn't do anything. They said, she can go to jail and they pay for her to go back or i pay for it and i take her to the airport and man that was hard. i didn't say bye, i said, see you soon i love you , it made me feel a Lil bit better, but not enough. right now I'm just waiting for them to approve the I-130 that so she can get visa and come back then we have to do more to get her a green card. but yea why I'm so down is i been with her for 9 years and married for 4 of those years.

Did you make the marriage official to the state?

yea like 4 years ago, they are F*CKING up my life

thats retarded, once youre married you shouldnt be able to be deported. sorry man good luck

i was sad to see this sorry your having a hard time getting her back home

Such bad things happen to good people... only makes you stronger. and hopefully your love stronger.. what a test of faith and devotion! Good Luck!

definitely get a lawyer man thats the only way to deal with the government

yea i did slayer 500 dollars up front im just waiting on the form i sent in then i got like three other step man i hope it goes fast
thanks for the heads up

I've known several people who were from another country and got married to one of my family members or friend of the family and every one of them had to get a green card. Did you guys forget to discuss that matter prior to the marriage?

They took your wife away? Dude, that's rough. Will be prayin for your marriage, and for the safe return of your wife. Government can't take family away like that, Americans have been intermarrying since the country freaking started. Really sorry man

Very sorry to hear that :( The good thing is that you will definitely be able to bring her back here, as long as there is an official record of your marriage. Trust me on this. Your lawyer will take care of this fast.

thanks guys need all i can get right now

Good luck man, stay strong

Hey.. She should had never left... Because she would had never gone to gail.. She leagel as of the fact once u where married.. All u needed was paper work...

I have a green card ttoo.. An i did it all bymy self no lowers..
Either way since she left u need to go to the usa embersy inindunisia.. And get a visa there.. In 30 days shes here.. U will need to show that u guys have been married for that long.. That makes no sence that anyone would had said that... She just needed a new i94 and she could had gotten that at her embersy..and she woud had been 90days to get the green card started..eventhough shes leagel since your married...with papers or not..

When i married my wife i was all worried.. I was readding all about imigration stuff.. If u want some help.. I know some people in imigation... Pm me and i will seend u some phone numbers...

Also.. What wil help you super mach and my speed things up.. Go to your local congress man... He wants your vote anyway.. I did go and had them ask some question.. They can give u answeres faster because they have a direct line to imigrarion and can speed things up... even though i cant vote they still helped..

she coming back soon everything been approved I'm so happy . i hope she comes before Christmas .

Wow, that's one hell of a good news!